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You all informed me that today was National Bestfriends Day. You had fun playing with your neighborhood buddies and as always baby sister was waiting for your arrival home. Standing at the door as soon as you left saying "bubba bubba ... ee ee ee ee"
I'd say in her world, you are most certainly her best buds who she adores and looks up to so much. It's pretty neat watching you all love each other.
And do you see those blue skies? The sun returned to Florida today!
It has rained for days here, but we get outside as fast as we can in between storms. Thankful for the rain, but missing our Florida sunshine.
Today, we made this sidewalk paint that took all of five minutes to make and provided over an hour of fun. Much needed fresh air for all of us.
Love watching this little bit become curious about exploring with art. Will be doing lots more of these fun messy activities this summer.
Kylo Ren and the decade girls. Happy Halloween
He is such a gift to each of our three girls. He is such a gift to all of us. I love the plan God had in our family to place him right where He did. He loves with such a tender heart and every time I see him like this, my heart is full.
She's so loved.
I was alone giving her a bath and got so excited to see she was finally relaxing and actually happy. Bath time has not been her favorite time. It wasn't long before all three of them were by her side. I love how they love her.
Yes, my love, you will be with them soon enough. Let's enjoy every minute of you right here by mama.
Something special is starting between them. I continue to learn so much mothering our four children. Being from a big family myself, I had no idea all my mom did to make us all feel loved. And sometimes no matter her efforts, I selfishly wanted more. Oh, the grace I know now. Had I only known it then. So many nights, I sit in silence feeling like I wasn't enough to them. Feeling like I've somehow not given one of them enough of me. God reminds me that He will fill any gap I can't . I wasn't made to do this on my own. I was made to love and that is all they need. He will give them the rest.
water and light. stops me every single time.
and this boy. oh, how i love his heart. what a blessing to have him to love and protect three sisters. such a gift to all of us.
On Saturday, our kids were super excited to have their grand parents, aunts, uncles and cousins over for a gender reveal party. Pink and blue was worn by all as each person made their guess. Our sweet three did a great job keeping the secret until the big reveal! Rain coming down, lots of excited squeals, and pink flying everywhere!
IT'S A GIRL!!!!
So grateful and blessed for this gift of life growing inside of me. Praising God through it all.
If I were asked to describe their relationship I would say loud, rambunctious, wild, fun, joyous.....and overflowing with love. I love seeing their relationship and all that it is now at 5 and 8 years old. What a gift they are to each other.
Some days you guys drive each other crazy, but most of the time, this is what I see. You love to play together and I often hear your loud laughter from the yard as I am inside prepping dinner. You are 2 1/2 years apart, but just about the same size and have many of the same interests. So grateful for the bond I see you have. No, not every moment is smiles and togetherness, but I appreciate the moments that are so much.
A few weeks ago, I decided to order Holi powder so you could have your own color war by the lake. It was so fun to watch you together; laughing, screaming and painting one another in bright colors.
As most mothers, I am grateful when I see y'all having fun together, and most of the time you do enjoy being together. You really are each other’s best friends, but the reality of life, with multiple children, is that there is also conflict. Big Sissy and Bubby, two and a half years apart, can be very competitive. Your battles have become a valuable lesson in our home about grace.
I love these words by Bob Goff, “Grace doesn't seem fair until you need some.” Often times, you will tattle on each other, pointing out mistakes or misbehavior; almost as if you want to see your sibling get into trouble. Yet, when the situation is turned around you see how hurtful this can be. We explain that God wants us to encourage one another, not seek out each other’s faults. He is the ultimate example of grace. I want you to see how beautiful life can be when we encourage one another. I want you to know the importance of giving grace always.
This is true for both adults and children. How often do we focus on how we have been hurt or wronged? How often do we genuinely give grace and forgiveness? I know there have been times that grace was not easy to give; but I have seen how freeing it can feel to demonstrate grace and to give love, even when it is not deserved.
I cherish these moments where you are blissfully enjoying one another. On days when I find you in the midst of conflict, I am reminded of the never ending need for grace. I know that as your mother, I must demonstrate this example of grace in our home. It’s always a blessing that God will continue to work on my own behaviors, as I mother the three of you.
